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  1. Blue Raindrop
    Wichita, Ks
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Much deeper than I expected
    October 26, 2012
    Blue Raindrop
    Wichita, Ks
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    My Own Worst Enemy by Janet Davis is the latest book I've received from Bethany House for reviewing.

    I guess I sort of expected this book to be about physical ways that we make life harder on ourselves. Debt, health choices, those sort of things.

    Instead, I was surprised by the depth, in a positive way.

    It focuses more on ways that we sell ourselves short.

    Maybe we let our true dreams die off, and never truly find our purpose.

    Maybe we let ourselves be beaten down by certain parts of our past that we hide, and let ourselves feel like we are "less than".

    Maybe we hold ourselves back, not willing to stand out from the crowd and show the true talents that we've been given for fear of showing off.

    This isn't a book you are probably going to get through quickly if you are really open to reading it. It's one of those that will probably take some time of just sitting and processing and really reflecting.

    But it's very worth the time spent.
  2. SFaith
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    Overcome and Move On
    October 17, 2012
    SFaith
    Age: 35-44
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Sharing insights from biblical women to modern day women, "My Own Worst Enemy: How to Stop Holding Yourself Back" was an interesting read, that in today's busy world, many women, both working, stay at home, pretty much all walks of life, can relate to.

    Janet Davis, the author, shares personal anecdotes, along with scripture, and both biblical and modern day examples, that really helps women get an insight into ways that we can self-sabotage ourselves, both knowingly and unknowingly.

    Having study questions at the end of the chapter, are a big help, for those who are reading this book, either for personal insight or thinking of leading a small book study group, and what stands out is, each chapter connects a modern day woman with a possible biblical equivalent with the questions, helping the reader focus on how do they, or could they see themselves in the topic being addressed.

    With thirteen chapters, the book is broken into three sections and each section, I found to be pretty in depth, covering topics such as:

    The Unimagined Life

    Identity, and

    Choices,

    to name a few of the topics that Janet Davis goes into deeper detail.

    As a Christian, each chapter and topic is explored extensively with corresponding passages of the bible for encouragement and insight, each chapter starting as well with pertinent quotes that are inspiring and uplifting.

    I found,"My Own Worst Enemy: How to Stop Holding Yourself Back" to be a very in depth book, and the topics are thoroughly explored. For Christian women who find themselves struggling, the book is very motivating and empowering, with strong examples of strong women from the bible, and how even in today's world, we can be focused and strong and motivated, to not hold ourselves back, but have that much needed confidence to pursue our goals and face the world.

    This wasn't a quick read and definitely not an overnight, this is what is going on, type of book to read, but instead, "My Own Worst Enemy: How to Stop Holding Yourself Back" works for those who are willing to take the time and effort to try and understand,how can we self-sabotage ourselves and how do we overcome those destructive methods and in place, use more constructive and healthier methods.

    ***Thank you to Bethany Publishing for the opportunity to read and review this book, in exchange for my personal opinion***
  3. Anonymous
    Coffeyville, KS
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    "Every woman is called to shine,...
    April 25, 2012
    Anonymous
    Coffeyville, KS
    Age: 25-34
    Gender: female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    ... and there are no exceptions"

    Challenging and refreshing — I think these are the first words I would choose to describe this book. Janet Davis offers a journey of self-rediscovery in this book through the examination of some women's lives — the author, some personal acquaintances and biblical characters like Mary and Martha enliven Mrs. Davis's invitation to rethink our own identity. On one hand, it is amazing how today's problems are the same found in the Bible, despite the difference in time and context; on the other hand, I have seldom thought of myself as someone shaped mostly by social expectations, rather than by the gifts and skills God trusted me with.

    Written with simple and friendly words, the depth of this book asks the reader to turn pages slowly, as it awakens our insight of our own roles within our lives. Unassertiveness, insecurity, negative preconceptions and willingness to be accepted are some of the issues addressed in this book.

    Something that I particularly enjoyed are the questions included before and after each chapter; none are easy to answer, but if done honestly, we would join Mrs. Davis's journey to self-fulfillment and freedom from social expectations, making use of the particular skills and gifts God gave us — those that make us who we actually are, and which can be more gloriously used to live a life to worship Him.

    Amazingly personal, I would highly recommend this book to those who would like to have a fresh insight of what a life of worship is.

    I received a complimentary copy of this book from Bethany House Publishers in exchange for a review. This has not biased my opinion on the book or the author in any way.
  4. bookwomanjoan
    Oak Harbor, WA
    Age: Over 65
    Gender: Female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    stop the self-sabotage
    April 2, 2012
    bookwomanjoan
    Oak Harbor, WA
    Age: Over 65
    Gender: Female
    Quality: 5
    Value: 5
    Meets Expectations: 5
    Women, we sometimes sabotage ourselves, don't we? Janet found out she did. She writes, "I had met the enemy and she was me." (15) You are a nobody, she thought. You have nothing to say.

    She knew her thoughts had become a hindrance to living out the fullness God had created her to be. Realizing that, she began a focused journey. She talked to other women. Many suspected the God-sourced light within them had become hidden. They realized their internal dialogue was harsh and they did not understand the enemy within.

    Janet has gathered stories, modern and biblical, each illustrating an aspect of the struggle with self-sabotage. She writes about the unimagined life, the unworthy life, and the unlived life. She adds her own stories, highlighting the various seasons in her own struggle. Janet finishes her book by writing about healthy and proactive choices, choices offering freedom.

    I really appreciated reading about the difficulties women have with self-awareness (living miserable lives and not even noticing), feeling unworthy (knowing the ugliness within), and poor identity (the crumbs are enough).

    Janet reminds us we are called to creative and to shine. We can make the wise and healing choices that culminate in saying yes to God.

    Thought provoking questions have been placed at the end of each chapter. We are asked to think about our own story, the pain, the emotions, the impact of others, etc. The answers to these questions could be very revealing and I would suggest they be answered in a group of trusted friends. One could also answer the questions privately, perhaps keeping a journal. In many cases, answering the questions were more powerful toward transformation than reading the text.

    If you think you are your worst enemy, if you think you are a nobody or that you have nothing to offer God, read this book. You will find that God greatly values your gifts, your voice, and your womanhood. Janet's prayer is that by reading this book, "you will have experienced the lavish love of God for your feminine soul in new and deeper ways." (248) It is time to get rid of the self-sabotage, to stand tall and shine like never before!

    I received a copy of this book from the publisher for the purpose of this review.
  5. LETHER
    Chesapeake, VA
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    5 Stars Out Of 5
    A very inspiring book.
    March 26, 2012
    LETHER
    Chesapeake, VA
    Age: 45-54
    Gender: female
    My Own Worst Enemy written by Janet Davis and published by Bethany House Publishers is definitely a great book. I felt as though this book was written specifically for me. I have been my own worst enemy. The author writes about how we (women) self-sabotage by denying ourselves the opportunity to shine. We convince ourselves that we are not worthy, even though it is our calling, God's desire for us to shine. The gifts that God has given sometimes remain unused. Our dreams go unfulfilled because we don't permit ourselves to move forward. The author provides insight on several women in the bible, however I admire the qualities of the woman in Mark 7:24-30. The boldness and humility she showed even though rejection by Jesus was a possibility. She wasn't stopped by fear and knew she was worthy of something. I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to read such an empowering book. I can relate to some of the issues discussed. After reading this book I was truly inspired. The questions at end of each chapter were also helpful. An opportunity to express our feelings regarding decisions and experiences which also aids in moving forward. This book is truly a book of wisdom and encouragement.
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