Raising Your Kids to Love the Lord is the first of three books in the Faithful Family series where Pastor Dave Stone applies his practical, conversational, and humorous approach to the challenge of building a strong spiritual foundation for the family. Some of the topics included are authenticity, discipline, modeling godly principles, and sharing the load.
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Review 1 for Raising Your Kids to Love the Lord
Gospel is completely absent. Only legalism here
Date:July 22, 2012
The most fitting title of this book would be "How To Raise Obedient Kids". Readers will love the quick easy flow of this book and the many bits of helpful parenting tips. This book has ALMOST ALL the right OUTWARD steps for raising obedient children (notice I did not say "for raising kids to love the Lord"). I loved this book for all of its excellent helpful obedience advice that actually works too! If you successfully follow these ~10 steps, your children will be mindful, obedient and well-mannered. This book is full of many steps of what to-do and not-to-do in order to raise obedient children. Here are a few samples:
- "Make sure you are the same person in church as you are at home. If you lose your integrity, purity and faithfulness in different circumstances, your children will know." - "Your children need to see you living what you believe." - More advice: pray, mothers are important, fathers are important, be consistent in discipline, parents should love one another, etc.
What is sadly missing from this book is the "how to raise kids TO LOVE the Lord" because the means to "loving the Lord" via the gospel and Holy Spirit is completely missing. The word "gospel" is literally mentioned only once in the entire book and it was used in the context of someone preaching the gospel in China. The gospel (which saves our children) is completely absent from cover to cover. This book is an excellent parenting tip book but Christianity is not all rules and obedience and 10-steps. This book fails to teach parents how to raise their children with grace and LOVE FOR GOD. If all children have are rules and strict obedience, they will learn to fear God, dread God, hate God and not love God. Pure obedience demonstrates no grace. It has been proven that legalistic Christianity drives children away from God, not towards him. I've heard the odds of children raised in legalistic Christian homes rejecting Christianity in their teen and college years are astronomical. No one can be "good enough" to "make it to heaven" so our obedient kids just give up. We need to teach our children the gospel, not just the law! So when they do try and fail, they know that Christ still loves them! (And know that I am not preaching "easy love" here or "freedom to sin".)
Instead of this book, I recommend Elyse Fitzpatrick's book "Give Them Grace" about raising gospel-centered children without forgetting obedience but also not forgetting the gospel of grace (God's love, not humanistic psychology love). I also recommend parents listen to sermons from John Piper, who teaches us all how to love God and see God for the beauty to be had IN HIM! Not just joy in God's blessings but in Christ Himself! Our children must learn to love God and they will be watching their parents to see if their parents love God.
My disclaimer - I received this book from the publisher but I am not required to give a positive review. I always give brutally honest reviews and attempt to critically point out parts of the book that may not agree with the Bible and so not appeal to others. I want you readers to be able to confidently choose a book based on the stars I give it, because I know you have limited money, time and energy to read. So let's make the most of our lives and discern and choose the very best books wisely.
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Review 2 for Raising Your Kids to Love the Lord
Excellent book for all parents
Date:July 6, 2012
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this hardcover, gift-sized book. It is filled with practical ideas and examples from his life in raising his own children. I found it to be both encouraging and challenging.
With 145 pages divided into ten chapters, this book is a quick read. I loved this quote from the first chapter: "Only perfect parents raise perfect children. (Last time I checked, there were no perfect children and no perfect parents either!) There is no foolproof plan. And there is this little detail called free will which will determine the spiritual commitment level of your children when they are grown. On the other hand, Christian homes don't just happen; neither do kids who love the Lord. There is a lot we can do to help determine the outcome of our children's spiritual lives."
Well, if like me, you are not perfect, you will be encouraged that you do not have to be perfect and you don't need to expect perfection in your children. You will also be challenged to raise your children (with the Lord's help) to the best of your ability and be given practical ways to carry this out.
Some of the topics covered in the book include having an authentic Christian walk at all times; what, when and how to pray for your children; being consistent in discipline; how others can help and more. There is also one chapter written just to moms and one for dads as well.
I really enjoyed reading this book and think all Christian parents would benefit from reading this book. I plan to read it again.
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‘If you want your kids to grow up to love the Lord, it all starts with… You.’
Dave writes this book as a father and as a pastor who desires to truly raise his children to not only love the Lord but to serve Him. This is a very practical and easy read for parents with children of any age. It is never too young or too old to teach your children to love the Lord. As a children’s pastor I love how practical this book is, with helpful ideas and easy tools for parents to use in their home.
Dave is very clear from the start that to raise your kids to love the Lord it really begins with you as a parent and being clear about your priorities. Kids want something that is real and you living out your faith day to day is the best example they will ever see. They will follow your lead. He talks frankly to moms and dads in separate chapters to remind them of the amazing place God has put them in the lives of their children.
This book is encouraging and I believe a challenge to parents to take the lead and live by example. Dave shares personal stories of his own children and the struggles that he and his wife have faced and the lessons they’ve learned through the process. It’s solid biblically and a very helpful resource for parents, grandparents and fellow children’s ministry colleagues. Enjoy the read.
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“Raising Your Kids to Love the Lord” by Dave Stone is a great tool for any parent who desires to raise their children up in Christ. It is a small, yet important, book that will help equip and motivate Christian parents.
Dave Stone emphasizes what is critical in raising Christian children to make faith their own and live a life for Christ. He writes about the power of Scripture, the importance of prayer, the need for consistency in discipline, the roles of the mother and father, and the impact of integrity on your children. He writes about all these topics in a compact book that won’t take too much time out of your busy life as a parent.
As a reader, I did not read anything new in this book. There was nothing that I had not read before. But, it was a fantastic book that reiterated the lessons and tools that we as parents so often need to be reminded of. It is well written, short, and includes life examples to drive home the importance of being an intentional parent. Very good book!
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Drawing upon his personal experiences of family life as a husband and a father to three children, Senior Pastor and author Dave Stone provides a wonderfully practical and encouraging book in Raising Your Kids to Love the Lord, the first installment in the "Faithful Families" series. Through sharing stories from his own home life and the homes of the families he's counselled in his role as pastor, the author gives readers ideas of how parents can shape their children by living authentic lives, praying for their children, and incorporating the Bible into family life. Dave Stone also tackles such issues as discipline and the importance of consistency, and speaks specifically to moms and to dads in separate chapters as well.
I greatly enjoyed this first installment in the Faithful Family series, finding it easy to read, and filled with hope, encouragement, and very practical steps parents can make to spiritually invest in their children. In an age where families can become overwhelmed with keeping up the perfect appearance, having the nicest house or car, or striving to help their child become the best at every possible activity, this book provides a breath of fresh air and reminds us about what really matters in life. I love the point the author makes that at the end of our lives, no one will care about all the material possessions we may provide for our kids, but rather what sort of relationships we had with our family members, the time we spent with them, the ways that we instilled faith, a love for God, a heart for serving him. The book is a pleasure to read, not only in how it's written, but the way the book has been put together with it's hard-cover format, frequent use of pictures, and relatively short chapters that make it easy to read the book on the go and fit in some reading here and there in the midst of busy schedules.
I highly recommend this book and encourage parents to add this one to their collection. You'll finish the book feeling more confident as a parent and equipped with some new ideas of how to lead your kids to love Jesus. What could be better than that? 5 out of 5 stars.
Book has been provided courtesy of the publisher, Thomas Nelson, for the purposes of this unbiased review.
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Review 6 for Raising Your Kids to Love the Lord
Powerful And Well Done
Date:May 20, 2012
Location:The Woodlands, TX
Finally a book that tells the truth and does not try and sugar coat what parents MUST do to have Godly children! Dave is honest throughout his writing letting you know there are not 3 simple steps to get the job done. If you are truly wanting to have a peaceful home with children that love the Lord, Dave will get you off to a fantastic start!
We Need more books like this that tell you the walk will not always be easy, it takes time but the results are SO worth it. What Dave shares is not hard, but it does take time and you MUST be consistent. I would put this book at the top of the list for new parents!
I absolutely love books that deal with parenting. I think that's partly due to the fact that I'm right there just starting out in this parenting thing with a 3 year old and a 1 year old. I'm a studier and like to be prepared and have as many ideas as possible.
The title of this book attracted me to it over the other choices to review. I desparetly want my children to grow to love the Lord above all. I know that I can't make them believe in Him or follow in His ways, but I do shape their opinion of who He is and if my life isn't lived in submission to Him, then theirs won't be either.
Filled within these pages, Dave doesn't soften the blow of the truth at all. He shouldn't have to. He reminds us to be intentional as parents. How can we have kids who love the Lord if we spend our days full of wasting time in front of a television or doing things that we enjoy instead of shaping the hearts of our children?
Not only that, but boundaries come into play in parenthood. Not all things are beneficial for you, your child, or your family. "No" is an okay word to use and must be used. Dave encourages you in this and it was nice to know that I wasn't, in fact, a mean mom that I sometimes guilt myself into thinking.
This book is full of advice, encouragement and warnings, but all written out of both love and experience. All parents needs to read this book....if not for a reminder of how important our job as a parent is and how it shouldn't be taken lightly. This book was a great reminder to me as I read it in the start of summer, where I tend to be less intentional and more relaxed. Thanks for the insight, Dave.
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