I had read books by Dr. Dobson about parenting that I thought were great. My husband's and my Pastor suggested John Gray's book Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus. After we read it I thought he had a great insight into relationships, so I thought I would read his book Children Are From Heaven. Reading it made me feel so depressed. It made me feel like I was parenting all wrong. I felt like it went against most of the things Dr. Dobson suggested in his books. I do not recommend this book to anyone.